我出关了!
Finally!!!
My confinement ended yesterday!!!
This is the first time I greatly appreciate that my mama is a traditional woman
Luckily she goes by the Chinese Calendar to determine my confinement period
Caleb was born on 8th Apr (Chinese Calendar)
Then yesterday was 8th May and so it was the last day of my TERRIBLE confinement!
Woah...
HOT, SMELLY and FRUSTRATING are the three words that I will pick to describe the past month....
I am having some giving-birth-phobia now...I don't think I would want to give birth anymore...
Nah Nah..Not because of the labour pain...Labour was ok..All thanks to Epidural (I HEART Epidural!)
But confinement was *shake head shake head* something I don't want to go through again!!!
My best advice for you all would be
Next time pick a better date to get conceived so that you will deliver during Nov-Feb period when the weather is cooler
Mid-year period is simply crazy!!!
I must thank my mama...
For cooking my confinement food ( though I only eat fish for Lunch and bigger slice of fish for Dinner...bcuz I don't like to eat meat...she has no choice but to cook FISH for every meal...)
For tahan-ing my terrible tempers (I have been throwing tempers at her whenever little Caleb throws temper at me...Poor mama)
For loving and taking care of little Caleb when I get so stressful (There are times when I get so frustrated with little Caleb that I just handed him over to my mama...So guilty)
Mother is a lifelong job that you have to work 24 hours everyday and don't get to retire unless you die...
Your kids are your boss and not all bosses will appreicate their "employees" (mother).
But you will still do your best...
Just like my mama...
She still has to take care of her married and bad-tempered daughter who is already 27 years old.
Anyway, I am back at Woodlands now
Finally, I am connected back to the world with Internet access
Woo Hoo!!!
2 comments:
Congrats!! Yeah, confinement is over. But endless worrying and frustration continues. Heh, but you'll be rewarded with the most heart-warming hugs and sweetest kisses. Not forgetting those "Mummy, I love you". :D
So... I can bully lil Caleb soon? hehe... When When When?
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